Talk about obsession.
This article about South Korean students wanting to go to Ivy League schools in the U.S. made me rethink my Ivy League dreams about graduate school. Even if the article focused on college applicants, I’m pretty sure that graduate school nowadays for the Ivies is more competitive than before, not to mention the high tuition cost for those who are lucky to get in.
It’s good that students from Daewoo and Minjok Leadership Academy have goals and achieve it. But if it’s at the expense of having a life and enjoying your high school days like a teenager should (meaning a balance of work and play really), then there will eventually be a catch somewhere.
I know a lot of people from Ateneo who eventually gained acceptance to the Ivies for graduate school and do good, despite not being ultra-spectacular students in college. But again, graduate school is a different matter because emphasis is on work experience and admission test scores and not so much on grades.
Hopefully these kids from Korea will end up “normal” when they grow up. The article made them seem like robots programmed to do nothing but study and do everything else to get into their school of choice. Gilmore Girls’ Rory comes to mind in this set-up.





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April 28, 2008 at 8:22 pm
Gabby
I Luv Gilmore Girls! Its a great show about 3 generations of women. why can’t the Philippines do something like that? Too bad Amy sherman-palladinos’ “the return of jezebel james” kinda sucked…
April 28, 2008 at 9:46 pm
coffeewithamee
Well, there are a whole lot of things that the Philippines can’t do or think they can’t do because it won’t be accepted by the audience. Ironically enough, Gilmore had a loyal following among Filipino viewers.
April 28, 2008 at 11:52 pm
Gabby
its very pinoy! The older generation is concerned with protocol and status, and the younger generation rebels against constraints. Lorelai raises her daughter alone, but to send her to the best school, she reaches out to her aristocratic parents — so pinoy!. And she is such an intrusive and manipulative mother –kinda like a lot of mothers who mean well, but is trapped in this old paradigm of conformity. But still there is alot of love that loralai, and rory, has for her mom. Of course, there is that famous GG banter and wit… that might be a tougher sell — not coz of the lack of banter and wit in filipino– but because its not clear that pinoys would warm up to a smart and witty heroine. But its not clear just coz it hasn’t been done!
hahaha… sorry for the essay. i just love the show. i can totally imagine a pinoy version, maybe stars hollow can be a small town in Laguna, and the grandparents live in Forbes Park…
clearly i’ve been thinking about this a while…
April 29, 2008 at 1:28 am
coffeewithamee
Thinking is good. And I never saw the show the way that you just described.
April 29, 2008 at 8:12 am
J.
Hi Ams, got here from your comment on my blog. Thanks for stopping by!
We were never like these kids in high school, even at our nerdiest. Thank God. There ought to always be time in high school for sliding down banisters and irking nuns, taunting the grade school kids at recess, practicing those blasted field demos and being, well, teenagers.
Despite all that, we turned out pretty ok, right?
April 29, 2008 at 2:46 pm
coffeewithamee
I think we did…